
Work-Life Balance
One of the lessons that I am constantly struggling with is finding a balance between pouring out into others and trying to meet the demands of a very hectic schedule on the one hand, and finding time to rest, renew myself, replenish and recharge. I am a slow learner by nature…. and more often than not I learn my lessons in the “University of Hard Knocks“.
At the moment I am spread very thin, and I need to consolidate and refocus on one or two “big rocks“, or really important things. I need to keep reminding myself that I cannot boil an ocean – I can only boil ONE kettle at a time! A typical day for me involves responsibilities at home (3 boys and one wife), my career, a degree that I am studying for, two other businesses that I am involved in and a small but very dynamic church that I pastor. Just writing that out makes me want to take 5 and rest.
One portion of the scriptures that is really helping me right now is found in Psalm 126:5,6:
Those who sow in tears Shall reap in joy. He who continually goes forth weeping,bearing seed for sowing, shall doubtless come again with rejoicing,bringing his sheaves with him.
THE DILEMA
I only used to focus on this verse in terms of evangelism, and sowing the “precious seed” of the Word of God through the tears of compassion, in order to see a harvest of souls. Of course it speaks of that, but another dimension to these verses that I am seeing is that there is a life-balance to be sought and found. The dilema in this verse points to that of a family man having seed. This seed can either be used to provide food for his household, or sowed into his fields – delaying the instant satisfaction of consumption in order to achieve a larger, but future, harvest. This “balance” can be applied to many areas of life, such as achieving a work-life balance.
CONSUMPTION
If you place too much focus on “eating”, that is, utlizing the resources at hand, be it money, time, energy, intellectual capital, leisure, you will refreshed, strengthened and renewed, but ultimately you will not have a “harvest”, a multiplied and compounded increase in benefits, or “rewards” that have cost you the “tears” of expending that energy, investing that time, applying that intellectual pursuit, or delaying that leisure, in order to pursue the worthy endeavour that you are focusing on.
INVESTMENT
The other optiohn is to concentrate your attention on “sowing”. This is all about investing your time, energies, focus and pouring-out ninto other people, projects, situations and your ubiquitous To-Do list. This will “get things done” and you will ultimately get projects moving along, but if you overplay your hand at “sowing” and you do not leave enough seed for “eating” then you will start to go hungry – your strengths will start to drain, and you will eventually become weak. The entire future “harvesting” business is put at risk. To be “Sowing” more than “eating” can only work in the short-term.
BURNOUT or PIPE-DREAMS
On the one hand, many today are in the camp of those “dreamers” who have wonderful ideas and always “eat” and never “sow” into the future. Thomas Edison once said that genius is one percent inspiration, ninety-nine percent perspiration. The same with any worthwhile endeavour that you are pursuing. “Dreamers” need to apply a boot to their derriere.
On the other hand we have the ever-increasing masses of those who are languishing from “burnout” which is essentially caused by “sowing with tears” much more than you “eat” and gain strength. These are slowly getting their strength and vitality drained away because they are expending much more energy than they are receiving. Compulsive “sowers” need prolonged times of rest and renewal – they need to regain their “strengths” through rest.
Whatever your particular situation is, live out life to the max….. but do not get maxed-out! Find a right combination of activities and habits that will recharge your batteries, and also do those things where you invest in your personal development in order to grow as an individual – you will find one day that it is possible to eat your way to a harvest!!!!