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Follow the compass, then the clock

by John Baw on February 26, 2009

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I am continuously challenged by the diverse and competing demands on my time and attention. In order to address this, I find myself returning time and time again to the wisdom of the ancient ones that have gone before me. The monastic tradition in the Church deconstructed their lives in such a way that they primarily focused on two pillars: Prayer and Work. The “Ora et Labora motto has galvanized and motivated a movement that has withstood the test of time, and many believe is increasingly relevant in our overloaded and stressed culture.

It’s alright I am not turning into a monk. What I am doing, however, is gleaning from some of their wisdom and practices in order to enrich my own life and spirituality. I am applying “Ora et Labora” in my own life, albeit within the context of married and family life, career development, workplace ministry, and pastoring a small but very dynamic church.

Ora et labora.
The deconstruction of life into work and prayer is meaningful to me because I find that this is the balance that I try to achieve in everyday life at ground-level. You see, “Work-Life balance” does not work for me. The reason for this is that my work is life…….and I do not check my life at the door to my office and become a zombie-automaton from nine to five. I am pursuing the idea of “flow” where life becomes a continuous movement between working, spirituality, family, rest, fun and fellowship. This is the “Clock“, the practical hands-on issue of scheduling my time, making sure that demands for my attention do not crowd-out other “higher-order” priorities that form the guiding vision or “Compass” for my life.

The Celtic Knot
At another higher level (33,000ft level), a more strategic focus means that I must have three fundamental components in my life and ministry that will direct the way my “work and prayer” flow happen at the day-to-day runway level. This is best represented by a Celtic Knot (HT: Eric J. Swanson) where each of the three points symbolizes three words that are taking on a lot of meaning for me: Contemplation; Community and Cause. To put it in less “Churchy” language, think Believe, Belong, and Bless, or even Faith, Community and Mission. These are the higher-order priorities that are the compass for my journey in life.

Contemplation
involves deepening my relationship with God, turning inward to experience God, seeking His face in the Word and often simply enjoying His embrace, His love, relishing His promises over my life. This is the way that I “refuel” my soul, recharge my batteries and build my faith and passion. The busier I get, the more of a priority my inner life must take. I cannot afford not to pray and be near the presence of God.

Community involves belonging. Humans are creatures of community. We crave deep relationships and connections with other people. I find that many of my relationships with people, even within church, are at a very superficial level. I am making it a top priority in my life to deepen my heart connections with people who can pour out into me, and build me up and encourage me, holding me accountable my heart’s wildest dreams.

Cause involves our mission to bless a broken world. This involves getting to know people – developing relationships with people and understanding their hurts, disappointments, desires and hang-ups – then praying for them and introducing a supernatural encounter into their situation that will make them experience the love of God. This makes all the difference.

Life always pushes me to attend to the “Clock” first and then the “Compass”. I am learning to turn this the other way around and make sure that my guiding compass (Contemplation, Community and Cause) press upon the use of my time in order to ensure that my life actually counts for something.

How about you?
What are you doing today that will give direction and purpose to your daily activities?

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Finding a work-life balance

by John Baw on January 21, 2009

Work-Life Balance

Work-Life Balance

One of the lessons that I am constantly struggling with is finding a balance between pouring out into others and trying to meet the demands of a very hectic schedule on the one hand, and finding time to rest, renew myself, replenish and recharge. I am a slow learner by nature…. and more often than not I learn my lessons in the “University of Hard Knocks“.

At the moment I am spread very thin, and I need to consolidate and refocus on one or two “big rocks“, or really important things. I need to keep reminding myself that I cannot boil an ocean – I can only boil ONE kettle at a time! A typical day for me involves responsibilities at home (3 boys and one wife), my career, a degree that I am studying for, two other businesses that I am involved in and a small but very dynamic church that I pastor. Just writing that out makes me want to take 5 and rest.

One portion of the scriptures that is really helping me right now is found in Psalm 126:5,6:

Those who sow in tears Shall reap in joy. He who continually goes forth weeping,bearing seed for sowing, shall doubtless come again with rejoicing,bringing his sheaves with him.

THE DILEMA
I only used to focus on this verse in terms of evangelism, and sowing the “precious seed” of the Word of God through the tears of compassion, in order to see a harvest of souls. Of course it speaks of that, but another dimension to these verses that I am seeing is that there is a life-balance to be sought and found. The dilema in this verse points to that of a family man having seed. This seed can either be used to provide food for his household, or sowed into his fields – delaying the instant satisfaction of consumption in order to achieve a larger, but future, harvest. This “balance” can be applied to many areas of life, such as achieving a work-life balance.

CONSUMPTION
If you place too much focus on “eating”, that is, utlizing the resources at hand, be it money, time, energy, intellectual capital, leisure, you will refreshed, strengthened and renewed, but ultimately you will not have a “harvest”, a multiplied and compounded increase in benefits, or “rewards” that have cost you the “tears” of expending that energy, investing that time, applying that intellectual pursuit, or delaying that leisure, in order to pursue the worthy endeavour that you are focusing on.

INVESTMENT
The other optiohn is to concentrate your attention on “sowing”. This is all about investing your time, energies, focus and pouring-out ninto other people, projects, situations and your ubiquitous To-Do list. This will “get things done” and you will ultimately get projects moving along, but if you overplay your hand at “sowing” and you do not leave enough seed for “eating” then you will start to go hungry – your strengths will start to drain, and you will eventually become weak. The entire future “harvesting” business is put at risk. To be “Sowing” more than “eating” can only work in the short-term.

BURNOUT or PIPE-DREAMS
On the one hand, many today are in the camp of those “dreamers” who have wonderful ideas and always “eat” and never “sow” into the future. Thomas Edison once said that genius is one percent inspiration, ninety-nine percent perspiration. The same with any worthwhile endeavour that you are pursuing. “Dreamers” need to apply a boot to their derriere.

On the other hand we have the ever-increasing masses of those who are languishing from “burnout” which is essentially caused by “sowing with tears” much more than you “eat” and gain strength. These are slowly getting their strength and vitality drained away because they are expending much more energy than they are receiving. Compulsive “sowers” need prolonged times of rest and renewal – they need to regain their “strengths” through rest.

Whatever your particular situation is, live out life to the max….. but do not get maxed-out! Find a right combination of activities and habits that will recharge your batteries, and also do those things where you invest in your personal development in order to grow as an individual – you will find one day that it is possible to eat your way to a harvest!!!!

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